Scars don’t define success, but the character they contribute to surely does[…]
You may be a man, a woman, or any other gender, and stumble upon this guide. I know you don’t want to waste your time with another casual guide that perhaps will make you lift yourself over what is holding you back, however I don’t intend of doing any of that. Let’s take a look at how easy you can become special just by making a simple decision.
You could be coming from a broken family, an abusive relationship, a bullied childhood, you could be hearth-broken so badly you might think you will never recover, or you might be suffering from a mental or other illness. Trust me, no one gives a damn. Yes, people are mean, and the world ain’t sunshine and rainbows, but the only thing you must do to keep going forward is to decide to, first of all, give no damn what anyone tells you. Some of us bear visible scars, and some of us are a real wreck from a mental and emotional point a view.
Does that make us… less?
No, it makes us be feeling like we are unable to do it, while the truth is you are actually a true warrior compared to others, one that will starting from now on bearing it’s scars with pride, and never give up on it’s set goals.
You have one life, and even though most of us realize this, we keep on taking bullshit every single day, from people who have no right to write our time-line unless we allow them to. So, what’s all this fuss about making a change??
Most of us don’t do this because of two main reasons. We either procrastinate, or let ourselves drift to the will of life subduing to our conditions, and our way too heavy burdens, failures, and scars.
Harrison Ford was a carpenter until 40, but that doesn’t mean you are going to wait that out, and if you are reading this and are 40, or even older, it is now the right time to start again, and do it right for once. We have dreams, motivations, desires. Some of us want money, some of us want fame, some of us are merely searching for love, or want to make a change, even if that means changing the world, but we keep on living with our dreams slowly becoming so distant we give up on them, we cannot reach them.
You are broken, you are lonely, you are at the bottom. You are not alone. But it can’t be worse, and since you are going to go to sleep in the end, might as well simply say fuck it, and do something about it, because if it’s not the okay, it is not the end, I assure you of that.
“Remember to look up at the stars and not down at your feet. Try to make sense of what you see and wonder about what makes the universe exist. Be curious. And however difficult life may seem, there is always something you can do and succeed at.
It matters that you don’t just give up.”
And the very first step in changing your habits is deciding that, starting from today, you will every single day pursue your goals, be it in any small amount in the start, but you will never cease until you’ve reached them. You are a human, not some potato meant to stay in the ground and be served on plate for the enjoyment of others. You are meant to create, to fight, to bleed, to love, to desire, to change, reshape, hope, and succeed, let me make that clear for you.
Create a routine that you will follow, but in the start, make sure it does not overburden you, because soon things will get pretty interesting. Don’t skip gym classes, don’t postpone study, and most importantly, always keep telling yourself you will make it, until the first thing that comes to your mind in the morning is this. It will suck, it will hurt, but I think we can both agree that after so much pain we deserve better, even if it means walking the extra mile. You know how it is at the bottom, it is time for you to climb to the top. Always be yourself, never stop being humble, being human. Help those in need, and don’t trust anyone, but yourself. Until you live, you will keep going. You will have to deal with a lot of cry kids who will state that you can’t, won’t, are unable to do it. That’s called trash, and you know what we do with trash.
Surround yourself with people that are better than you, and get into their social circles. Read and educate yourself in personal development, and learn how to reach specific goals step by step, being patient and progressing. Take classes on things you love, and love what you are doing. Put all your stress, pain, and hate into following your goals and getting to do better than before. Loneliness and solitude will soon become an addiction, not a downfall. Don’t worry, you will find love. But now it is time to find your way to where you truly belong. There will be countless days you want to end it all, quit, give up. But remember you’ve made a promise. We are not stopping until we reach the light, and if it is hell we must go through, the devil chose quite a bad spot to be in. Remember this, one day it will be over, and the only thing that will be left, is what we did. And now go…go get what you deserve, you are more than enough, I assure you of that.
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